As an African America child growing
up in the Deep South, there were very many stressors to deal with.  There was definitely racism, poverty, hunger,
and violence.  I mostly grew up in a
broken home on a small farm located in a very rural area outside of town with a
single mother.  My mother had eight children
and not very much support from my father.  We had to live with my father for one summer
due to my mothers inability to properly support us.  We were unfortunate to not have proper conveniences
that others had.  We had no automobile,
no electric stove, no running water, limited bedding, a fireplace and only two
rooms available to sleep.       
As a coping mechanism we were not
aware that we had a choice or that life was much better than our experiences in
that state.  We wore the same clothing; eat
limited portions of food, shared water from a neighbor, food, telephone, and
automobile, shared child caring and caregiving. We mainly shared resources.       
The region of the country that I
chose is the country of Israel.  Israel has
experienced or has been forced to fight many wars. War is a constant for this
nation as they are fighting everyone that they must.  Fortunately, their fighting spirit and resilience
have always afforded them a victorious outcome. Israel is known for a place where
Jesus Christ once lived walked and preached the gospel.  Jerusalem is the capital and is often
mentioned in movies, books, article and other sources of information.  
Unfortunately, this has been a war
zone many times.  War and terror attacks or
violence in Israel has caused the quality of family life to fall very low in this
historic religious nation.  Children have
to leave tier homes for an uncertain amount of time and live in fear of terrorist
attacks.  Economic and physical uncertainty
has a great impact on their stress levels. Their hope for the future is threatened
and poverty is increasing, child indoctrination occurs, abuse by militants as
human shields, and detained by militants, on one side of the war.  The impact of war causes them not to sleep
well, hunger sets in as well as a poor education, a lack of food, and posttraumatic
stress on all ages.  
In addition, children handle stress
better than adults and despite their experiences many are able to show positive
growth in the aftermath. With a richer spiritual relationship with Christ,    changed priorities, interpersonal relationships,
things can turn around.  (Kimhi
et al. 2010) 
Some peace projects that were
implemented in Israel, Jordan, Palestine, Health professionals from each city
have worked together through the Canadian International Scientific Exchange
Program (CISEPO).  The projects goal sis
to promote peacebuilding through addressing mother-child health, nutrition,
youth health, disease and youth health (Skinner et al.2005).
 
I enjoyed reading your posting and found it to be very heart warming. I found that we have some similarities in growing up. I'm also African American who was raised by a single mom and at times it was very hard for us. It was very interesting to know that Israel has caused the quality of family life to fall very low in this historic religious nation.
ReplyDeleteHi Rhonda I'm sorry I meant that Israel's opponent has caused their family life to decline. As a result of responding to threats and attacks Israel's family life has become difficult in some ways but not like their opponents.
ReplyDeleteHi Vinston,
ReplyDeleteReading your post about your struggles were heart tugging, Just as you, my family was struggling as well, but we didn't know it until we were older and had the opportunity to see and experience how others lived. Although our situation was as glorious as it could have been, I appreciate the lack of then, because today it makes me appreciate what I have today. Unfortunately, I believe todays children lack of respect and appreciation is due to having or being given too much too soon.
Tabitha Abney